Day eight: loving conversations all day

27 Feb

Lordy, today was a shocker.

My conversation is horrendous!

OK, if anything goes wrong…which in MY mind is all the time, I formulate stuff in my head – the way things SHOULD have gone, what I WOULD have said!

I don’t do OR say these things but that’s what my conversation does to protect myself.

But this one is confusing.

If I don’t say what I want because I know the situation can be handled differently, does this make me a lier?

Or a considerate person?

I try to MEAN what I say, when I SAY it, always, BUT I don’t ALWAYS choose to say what I WANT to say.

I am terrible with myself.

I discover, to my horror, that my self conversation is not born of CONFIDENCE.

Rather, comes from FEAR, and from a deep seated notion that I’M A FAILURE, I’m not GOOD ENOUGH.


And so I am always looking for approval, I am always looking for a chance to feel respected, or admired EVEN THOUGH these things really don’t mean anything at all for me.

Furthur, am I ever LISTENING if I’m talking to myself so much?

I am horrified, and as I watch Jesus eat corn around the fire – corn we found at the right time like he said we would because we’re out of food – calm and smiling, I’m wondering how he deals with me at all.

Am I helping HIM? CAN I?

It’s always me, me, me. Love ME, show ME, heal, ME.

I am thankful that most times (I think), my converstation is at least honest. Then again, even that. Is it?

I can rule my conversation. I must be responsible for it. My conversation can…no MUST be led by spirit.

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Ephesians 4:29-32)


Posted by on February 27, 2017 in Uncategorized



2 responses to “Day eight: loving conversations all day

  1. Paula Tohline Calhoun

    March 22, 2017 at 10:02

    Of course you aren’t good enough! Isn’t it a wonderful gift that goodness of any amount is not a requirement for communion with God?

    • kreemer

      March 23, 2017 at 09:46

      Isn’t even just the thought, splendid? 🙂


Talk to me!

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: