Day Twenty-One: Asking for forgiveness

14 Mar

Ah. The twist.

Forgiving others is difficult, forgiving myself, more.

Each requires letting go of something.

Forgiving others involves hurt, and aspects of control and revenge.

Forgiving myself includes self esteem and a healthy self.

These all are dependant on myself – whether or not I forgive.

Asking for forgiveness requires humility.

I have to face something I don’t want to, I have to beat down the need to be right.

I have to allow love for others to come before pride.

It’s really difficult.

And it seems to be the most important aspect of forgiving.

Because if I can’t ask for forgiveness, I cannot expect others to ask for mine.

I do not have the right to ‘be forgiving.’

It’s always difficult.

I sometimes wonder if meeting people over the internet is subject to the same rules as meeting people in life.

So Susan, forgive me for anything I may have done wrong.

I think I may not have given you the time that I rightfully should.

I was hurt by your responses, as I’m sure you were by mine and that was never my intention.

So I hope you can forgive me.

“You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.” Matthew 7:5

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Posted by on March 14, 2017 in Uncategorized


One response to “Day Twenty-One: Asking for forgiveness

  1. kreemer

    March 14, 2017 at 09:36

    The Unbounded Spirit
    This Might Be The Most Beautiful Poem Ever Written



    I’ve always loved reading poems. To find a great poem, however, is a difficult thing, especially in a market oversaturated with poetry books of all sorts that usually have nothing of importance to say.

    The following prose poem, Desiderata, is certainly not one of those poems that you read and have no impact on you. Written by Max Erhman, it is in fact one of the most beautiful poems you’ll ever come across. Read it and allow yourself to be moved by the subtle power of its words.


    Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

    As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

    Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

    Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.

    Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

    Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

    You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

    Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

    With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

    Be cheerful.

    Strive to be happy.

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